Private help when someone is making your life difficult
Know exactly what to say next, without losing your dignity or your case.
Paste their message, whether it's from an ex, a landlord, your boss or your family. We'll show you what they're really doing, flag anything that could be used against you, and give you four replies that hold your ground without landing you in legal trouble.
AI conflict resolution support for difficult conversations, negotiation and mediation preparation. Review and edit every draft before sending it.
From $19 · one-time payment · no subscription. Try the free example first; it uses no AI.
- No real names needed
- Never used to train AI
- Delete any case, any time
Example case
Co-parent · Round 3Their message
“You ALWAYS do this. I’ve told you three times the kids need picking up at 5 on Friday, not 6. If you can’t manage something this simple maybe we need to look at custody again. Answer me by tonight.”
What’s really going on
Custody is being used as leverage over a pickup time. Fix the pickup time and the threat has nothing left to stand on.
- “Always” overgeneralizing
- False urgency
- Veiled threat
Legal risk
Moderate
Custody mentioned: stay factual, no counter-threats.
Record-ready
Thanks for your message. To confirm: from Friday [date], I will collect the children at 5:00 pm each Friday. If you would like any other change to the schedule, please put it to me in writing.
For the messages that keep you up at night
Whoever is coming after you, the hardest part is answering without handing them something to use against you.
An ex or co-parent
Hostile texts, handover fights, threats about custody.
A landlord or tenant
Deposits held back, repairs ignored, sudden demands.
A boss or colleague
Unfair criticism, broken promises, pressure to agree.
Family and in-laws
Guilt trips, old arguments, boundaries that keep getting pushed.
A client who won't pay
Ghosted invoices and moving goalposts.
A neighbor
Noise, damage, parking and property-line fights that keep escalating.
How it works
From “what do I even say?” to a reply that protects you, in minutes
Paste their message
Add their latest message and a little background. Nicknames are fine, and the advice works just as well.
See what they're really doing
The pressure tactics they're using on you, what they're really after, and anything in the exchange that could be used against you.
Choose your reply
Four ready-to-send drafts, from keeping the peace to drawing a hard line. Edit any of them in your own words, then send it, or don't. You stay in control.
Four ways to answer
Every message gets four replies. You choose the one that fits.
Sometimes you need peace. Sometimes you need a paper trail. Sometimes you just need them to stop. Seeing the options side by side lets you decide with a clear head instead of reacting.
When you still need them
Peacekeeper
For a co-parent, a boss or a relative you'll see again. Acknowledges their concern and proposes a way forward, without conceding anything you haven't agreed to or apologizing for things you didn't do.
Keep a clean record
Barrister
Brief, factual, courteous and firm. Written as if a judge, mediator or HR might read it later, because sometimes they do.
Give them nothing to react to
Grey Rock
A few calm sentences that cover only the logistics. No emotion, no justifying, nothing to argue with.
Stop the pressure
Assertive
Names the behavior that has to stop, states your boundary, and says what you'll do if it continues, using only consequences you'd actually follow through on.
Built on the methods mediators and negotiators use
Interests, not positions
Looks past what they demand to what they need and fear, the core idea of the classic negotiation book Getting to Yes.
Brief, informative, friendly, firm
The BIFF method from high-conflict expert Bill Eddy, which many family lawyers and mediators recommend for replying to people who attack.
Written to be safe to forward
Every draft is written to avoid admissions of fault, threats and invented facts. Missing details become [placeholders] for you to fill.
Safety first
If anyone may be at risk, it says so plainly, points you to help, and keeps every draft focused on your safety.
Why not just ask a chatbot?
A general chatbot answers questions. This is built for one job: getting you through a conflict without handing them ammunition.
Knowing what to ask
A general AI chatbot: You have to write the prompt and know the techniques.
Resolve the Disputes: De-escalation and negotiation methods are built in. Just paste the message.
Reply options
A general AI chatbot: One answer, often generic or over-apologetic.
Resolve the Disputes: Four strategies side by side, from repair to firm boundary.
Spotting manipulation
A general AI chatbot: Only if you think to ask.
Resolve the Disputes: Flags guilt-tripping, false urgency, moving goalposts and more.
What could be used against you
A general AI chatbot: Easy to miss.
Resolve the Disputes: A legal-risk check of the wording, plus what to keep out of writing.
Safe to forward or screenshot
A general AI chatbot: Can admit fault, overpromise or invent facts.
Resolve the Disputes: Every draft is written to avoid admissions, threats and invented facts.
Remembering the conflict
A general AI chatbot: Mixed into your general chat history.
Resolve the Disputes: One private case file per conflict, every round in order.
A record for your lawyer
A general AI chatbot: Copy and paste.
Resolve the Disputes: Export the whole case as a PDF.
Privacy
A general AI chatbot: Sits in your personal chat history and, depending on settings, may be used to improve the model.
Resolve the Disputes: A separate private case file, never used to train AI, delete any time.
Private by design
Your conflict stays yours
You're trusting us with something personal. Here's exactly what we promise.
Only you can open your case
Access to every case is locked to your account by rules inside the database itself, not just by the app.
No real names needed
Call them “my ex”, “Landlord” or “J”. The advice is just as good, and your case stays anonymous.
Never used to train AI
Your case is sent to our AI provider only to write your analysis, with settings that rule out providers that store or train on it.
We don’t tell the AI who you are
Your email address and account details are never included. Only the words you choose to share are sent.
Encrypted in transit and at rest
Everything travels over HTTPS and is stored in an encrypted database.
Delete any case, any time
Deleting a case permanently removes every message, analysis and draft in it. You can ask us to delete your whole account too.
Simple pricing
Less than an hour with a professional. Help with every message.
One payment, no subscription. Each analysis covers one message from the other person, with four replies to choose from.
Everyday Pack
For everyday conflicts with family, friends, neighbors, customers or colleagues.
$19one-time
25 analyses · no subscription
- Four ready-to-send replies for every message
- Pressure tactics and legal risk flagged
- Refine any draft in your own words
- Private case file with PDF export
High-Stakes Pack
For exes and co-parenting, landlords, employers, money or legal pressure.
$39one-time
50 analyses · no subscription
- Our deepest analysis for complex disputes
- Record-ready replies written as if a judge may read them
- A legal-risk read: what not to put in writing
- Private case file with PDF export for your lawyer
See it before you buy. The free example shows exactly what an analysis gives you. Unused analyses stay in your account.
Questions people ask
Something else on your mind? Contact us.
Can this help me prepare for mediation?
Yes. You can organize the messages in your dispute, compare calmer ways to respond, and export your case record for a mediator. This is an AI preparation and drafting tool, not a neutral mediator: it does not bring both parties together, contact the other person or negotiate an agreement on your behalf.
How does this help with negotiation and conflict resolution?
The tool uses negotiation and de-escalation methods to help you understand a difficult message and compare four possible replies. You choose whether to clarify an issue, propose a next step or set a boundary. It supports workplace, family, landlord and everyday disputes; you review the wording and decide what to send. No outcome is guaranteed.
Why pay when I could ask a free AI chatbot?
You can, but you'd need to know what to ask. Here the mediation methods are built in: you get an honest read of the other person, the tactics they're using, the legal risk, and four replies written to be safe to forward. Everything is kept in a private case file for that one conflict, and it's never used to train AI.
Who can see my case?
Only you. Access is locked to your account at the database level. Your case text is sent to our AI provider to write the analysis, without your name, email or account details, and with settings that rule out providers that store or train on it.
Do I need to use real names?
No. We encourage nicknames like “my ex”, “Landlord” or initials. Keep the dates, amounts and facts that matter, and the advice is just as good.
Is this legal advice?
No. We're not lawyers, and nothing here is legal advice. We check your words, not your case: the analysis flags anything that could be used against you, tells you what to keep out of writing, and points you to a qualified professional when the stakes are real. You can export your case as a PDF to take to them.
Will you pass my case to a lawyer?
Not unless you ask us to. Nothing is shared today. We're planning an optional referral network so you can send your case summary to a licensed professional when a dispute needs more than the right words. You'll review exactly what's sent before anything goes, and nothing happens without your approval.
What if the other person is abusive, or I feel unsafe?
Your safety comes first. If a message suggests anyone is at risk, the analysis says so plainly, recommends contacting emergency services or a support organization, and reminds you that you don't have to reply at all.
Can I get a refund?
No. Every analysis uses paid AI processing the moment you run it, so packs are non-refundable. Two things protect you: if an analysis fails to complete, it isn't taken from your balance, and if you were charged twice or charged in error, contact us and we'll put it right. Try the free example first to see exactly what you get.
Is it a subscription?
No. You pay once for a pack of analyses and use them whenever you need them. Unused analyses stay in your account.
The message is waiting. Let's work out your reply.
Tell us what's happening in your own words. It takes a couple of minutes, and nothing is sent until you choose to send it.