Why it's worth it
One wrong message can cost you far more than $19.
A general chatbot gives you words. Resolve the Disputes is built for one job: getting you through a conflict calmly, on the record and out of legal trouble, so it never turns into something you have to pay a lawyer to fix.
How small disagreements turn into expensive ones
An angry reply becomes evidence
Texts and emails get screenshotted and forwarded to lawyers, HR, landlords and judges. What you wrote at 11pm is read in daylight.
An apology becomes an admission
“Fine, it's all my fault” to end an argument can later be read literally. So can a promise you never meant to make.
A threat becomes your problem
Even a vague “you'll regret this” can make you look like the aggressor, however the dispute started.
Do the math: a single hour of a lawyer's time commonly costs more than both of our packs put together. Getting each message right the first time is the cheapest way to keep a dispute small.
What you're paying for
Six things a general chatbot won't do for you
De-escalate
Stop it escalating before it gets out of hand
Most conflicts don't become disasters in one step. They escalate one heated reply at a time. Every analysis starts by working out what the other person actually needs and fears, so your reply can lower the temperature instead of raising it.
- An honest read of their mood and likely intent
- The interests behind their demands, not just the demands
- Replies that offer a face-saving way forward
Stay out of legal trouble
Don't hand the other side's lawyer your words
Each exchange gets a legal-risk score with a plain explanation, including what to keep out of writing. Every draft is written to avoid admissions of fault, threats and invented facts, and where a detail is missing you get a [placeholder] rather than a guess.
- Legal-risk score from 0 to 100, with the reasons
- What not to put in writing in this exchange
- A clear prompt to get professional advice when the stakes are real
Keep the record
An organized, dated record of the whole conflict
Each conflict lives in its own private case file: their message, the analysis and the reply options, round after round, in order and dated. Export the whole thing as a PDF in one click. No more scrolling back through months of texts.
- One case file per conflict, every round in order
- Dated entries you can hand straight to a professional
- Export to PDF or Markdown whenever you need it
Mediation-ready
Walk into mediation, HR or a lawyer's office prepared
If your conflict ends up with a mediator, a lawyer, HR or a tenancy adviser, you arrive with a clean history instead of a story. The Barrister replies are written as if a mediator or judge may read them, because sometimes they do.
Use our free consultation prep kit →- Record-ready replies built for third-party readers
- A full case history a professional can review quickly
- Fewer billable hours spent untangling what happened
Stand up to bullying
Hold your ground without becoming the bully
Being calm doesn't mean being a pushover. The analysis names the pressure tactics being used on you, and the Assertive and Grey Rock replies help you set boundaries, refuse to be baited, and state consequences you can actually follow through on.
- Flags guilt-tripping, false urgency, moving goalposts, rewriting history and threats
- Firm boundary replies with no insults or empty ultimatums
- Safety first: if anyone may be at risk, it says so plainly and points you to help
Learn the skill
Get better at difficult conversations every time
Every analysis explains what's behind the message and how each style of reply works. Seeing a peacekeeping, a record-ready, a grey rock and an assertive answer side by side, again and again, teaches you to spot the patterns and respond well on your own.
Browse the free guides →- Methods used by mediators and negotiators, applied to your real messages
- Four contrasting approaches to compare every time
- Free guides on BIFF replies, grey rock and more
The reply you want to send vs. the reply that protects you
What you feel like sending
“Typical? You're the one who caused the damage in the first place. Take it further then, see if I care. I'll pay when you stop lying about what happened.”
- ✕ Accuses without evidence
- ✕ Dares them to escalate
- ✕ Reads badly to anyone who sees it later
Barrister reply: record-ready
“Thanks for your message. I'd like to settle this fairly. Please send me a copy of the repair invoice, and once I've seen it I will pay my agreed share by [date]. If we disagree on the amount, I'm happy to discuss it in writing.”
- ✓ Calm, factual and fair
- ✓ Asks for evidence before paying, and concedes nothing
- ✓ Looks reasonable to a mediator, landlord or judge
Illustrative example. Your analysis is written for your exact message.
Why not just ask a chatbot?
A general chatbot answers questions. This is built for one job: getting you through a conflict well.
Knowing what to ask
A general AI chatbot: You have to write the prompt and know the techniques.
Resolve the Disputes: Mediation methods are built in. Just paste the message.
Reply options
A general AI chatbot: One answer, often generic or over-apologetic.
Resolve the Disputes: Four strategies side by side, from repair to firm boundary.
Spotting manipulation
A general AI chatbot: Only if you think to ask.
Resolve the Disputes: Flags guilt-tripping, false urgency, moving goalposts and more.
Legal exposure
A general AI chatbot: Easy to miss.
Resolve the Disputes: A legal-risk read, plus what not to put in writing.
Safe to forward or screenshot
A general AI chatbot: Can admit fault, overpromise or invent facts.
Resolve the Disputes: Every draft is written to avoid admissions, threats and invented facts.
Remembering the conflict
A general AI chatbot: Mixed into your general chat history.
Resolve the Disputes: One private case file per conflict, every round in order.
A record for your lawyer
A general AI chatbot: Copy and paste.
Resolve the Disputes: Export the whole case as a PDF.
Privacy
A general AI chatbot: Sits in your personal chat history and, depending on settings, may be used to improve the model.
Resolve the Disputes: Separate private vault, never used to train AI, delete any time.
Private by design
Your conflict stays yours
You're trusting us with something personal. Here's exactly what we promise.
Only you can open your case
Access to every case is locked to your account by rules inside the database itself, not just by the app.
No real names needed
Call them “my ex”, “Landlord” or “J”. The advice is just as good, and your case stays anonymous.
Never used to train AI
Your case is sent to our AI provider only to write your analysis, with settings that rule out providers that store or train on it.
We don’t tell the AI who you are
Your email address and account details are never included. Only the words you choose to share are sent.
Encrypted in transit and at rest
Everything travels over HTTPS and is stored in an encrypted database.
Delete any case, any time
Deleting a case permanently removes every message, analysis and draft in it. You can ask us to delete your whole account too.
Less than an hour with a professional. Help with every message.
One payment, no subscription, and a 7-day money-back guarantee if your first analysis doesn't help.
Everyday Pack
For everyday conflicts with family, friends, neighbours, customers or colleagues.
$19one-time
25 analyses · no subscription
- Four ready-to-send replies for every message
- Pressure tactics and legal risk flagged
- Refine any draft in your own words
- Private case file with PDF export
High-Stakes Pack
For exes and co-parenting, landlords, employers, money or legal pressure.
$39one-time
50 analyses · no subscription
- Our deeper Premium model for complex disputes
- Record-ready replies written as if a judge may read them
- A legal-risk read: what not to put in writing
- Private case file with PDF export for your lawyer
7-day money-back guarantee. If your first analysis doesn't help, we'll refund you in full. Unused analyses stay in your account.
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